My solution ended up being a special VB script. One that could even be launched on startup via a simple shortcut. Before you create your script you may want some background on starting VirtualBox in headless mode. VBoxHeadless.exe is a command line application that allows you to start a virtual machine that you have already created without a graphical interface. In a default installation VBoxHeadless.exe is located in "C:\Program Files\Oracle\VirtualBox\". Below I have shown you the proper usage for version 3.2.2. You may also download this information from my box.net account.
Oracle VM VirtualBox Headless Interface 3.2.2
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All rights reserved.
Usage:
-s, -startvm, --startvm [name|uuid] Start given VM (required argument)
-v, -vrdp, --vrdp on|off|config Enable (default) or disable the VRDP
server or don't change the setting
-p, -vrdpport, --vrdpport [ports] Comma-separated list of ports the VRDP
server can bind to. Use a dash between
two port numbers to specify a range
-a, -vrdpaddress, --vrdpaddress [ip] Interface IP the VRDP will bind to
-c, -capture, --capture Record the VM screen output to a file
-w, --width Frame width when recording
-h, --height Frame height when recording
-r, --bitrate Recording bit rate when recording
-f, --filename File name when recording. The codec
used will be chosen based on the
file extension
So in my case I am launching a virtual machine I have named "Debain", without quotes of course. My command would be:
C:\Progra~1\Oracle\VirtualBox\VBoxHeadless.exe -s Debian
Now if I were to launch that from a regular "Run" box in windows it would show me a black DOS-like box. If your goal is to get rid of that black box then you should continue. Still reading? Glad to hear it. Below I have copied some code from a Yahoo Answers post.
'=====================================
Set WshShell = WScript.CreateObject("WScript.Shell")
obj = WshShell.Run("H:\test.bat", 0)
set WshShell = Nothing
'=====================================
Copy that code into a blank notepad document and save it as "HIDECMDWINDOW.vbs". The file extension must be ".VBS". Replace the "H:\test.bat" with your command to launch "VBoxHeadless.exe". My code looks like this:
'=====================================
Set WshShell = WScript.CreateObject("WScript.Shell")
obj = WshShell.Run("C:\Progra~1\Oracle\VirtualBox\VBoxHeadless.exe -s Debian", 0)
set WshShell = Nothing
'=====================================
When you open the VB script, VBoxHeadless.exe will open in the background (you will not receive feedback). Your computer may ask you to allow port 3389 to open. If it does this is OK, because it is your remote desktop port.
Now if you want to log into the virtual machine using remote desktop all you have to do is open Remote Desktop Connection and type in local host as your server. (127.0.0.1 or localhost)
If you have any questions or comments please use the comment feature.
Sources/useful links:
http://johnmee.com/2008/10/start-headless-vbox-on-windows/
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20071011212557AAofTy6